Dear ToesUp:
Thank you for this post.
In my congregation, the elderly are lovingly provided for. Even inactive ones like me (I no longer attend) are shown love. My belief is that people are good and kindhearted, or they are not. Religion is not necessarily a contributing factor. My great group of JW friends may no longer be the norm.
The people of Malta showed Paul and other shipwreck survivors extraordinary human kindness; they were pagans.
Best wishes.
CoCo